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Tuesday, November 14, 2006

MM #72: How to Merge a Current Career with Coaching

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FEATURE: How to Merge a Current Career with Coaching

MJ Jennings, the "Inspiration Woman," is an executive coach who has made as much as AUD$100,000 in one month from coaching!

Based in Hong Kong, she calls herself a "Pacific gypsy" because of the travel she does up and down AsiaPacific.

How did her life journey take her from a farm in New Zealand to the intense, vibrant career she now enjoys?

MJ first heard about coaching in 2000, and her interest peaked after being given an article by a friend. By that time, she'd moved with her children to Hong Kong. She had completed her masters in Human Resources and moved into Business Excellence, a team approach to continuous improvement. But coaching offered a different way to inspire people and help them move forward in their lives.

Tip: Use your current skill set to enhance and compliment your coaching style.

"I actually started coaching by being coached by a master - David Wood - about six years ago," she says. (Thanks for the plug MJ!) From Hong Kong, MJ arranged face-to-face and phone sessions. She found coaching was a natural transition from the work she was doing.

Not about having the answers

"I realized that my clients needed more than the traditional training approach," she explains. "I found I had lots of 'guinea pigs' to practice on."

Being coached herself gave her the confidence she needed to jump in and start doing it. "My initial perception of coaching was misguided... I thought I had to have the answers, and my approach was more along the lines of consulting or advisory. Now I really know coaching is all about the coachee, not me!" She credits this experience with giving her a deeper understanding of the coaching philosophy as well as a toolkit of forms, approaches and questioning techniques.

She became a founding member of the Hong Kong International Coaching Community, joined Coachville and became very active in promoting executive coaching as a business learning approach.

Tip: Get involved - join forces with other coaches to share information and make coaching more visible in your community.

According to MJ, awareness and acceptance of executive coaching has been slower in Hong Kong than it has been in other areas. "To survive as a coach, you need to have other 'strings to your bow' - and mine was training," she says. She leveraged the workshops she ran by promoting one-on-one "coaching based interventions." This built her confidence and her cash flow. "I built a company around the things I like doing, and the coaching has become a major part of that. We now generate revenues that have just kept growing."

Getting out there

MJ feels staying in the public eye is a key way to attract new business. She has been on radio programs a half dozen times and has done several interviews in local newspapers and magazines.

"Building a positive reputation is very important for credibility and approachability," she says.

Most of MJ's business is referral, and people see her in action as a speaker and doing other activities.

Tip: Be noticed. Look for ways to tie coaching in to what you're already doing, and offer your expertise to the media.

MJ says, "Practice what you preach - if it's a business it must look like one, feel like one and run like one, with a business plan, strategy, goals and action plans.

She has a "no surprises" policy, discussing fees and structure with clients up front. She does pro-bono work, charity workshops and offers coaching packages to encourage repeat business. At the same time, she negotiates higher fees for intensive programs to ensure a return on the investment in time and resources.

And she's busy. In the next six weeks, she'll have five coaching sessions in Singapore, three in Hong Kong, training workshops with one-on-one coaching sessions in Vietnam and Korea, followed by a week of coaching back in Hong Kong and four sessions in Tokyo.

Even coaches can use a coach

Part of MJ's success is how she "walks the talk." She says successful coaches need to have a commitment to life learning.

"If Tiger Woods has a coach - then there is a time in our lives when we all need a coach to stretch, guide, challenge and recognize effort," she explains.

Do talk to strangers

She advises other coaches to keep talking to strangers, and keep networking. Potential clients can't find you if you're not putting yourself out there, she points out.

Often, MJ's casual chats turn into business when she's asked what she does for a living. But "it's not about the money, or the potential for business," she says. "It's about them identifying a need that they have, and wanting to work through a coach to get that need met. I love it when they contact me and I'm their 'chosen' coach."

See more about MJ's business at ActiveCommunication.net.


MJ got her start through the CoachStartâ„¢ Mentoring Program - if you would like one of the few remaining positions, you can apply here.


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Action: Expand Your Business

1. Start researching and asking for recommendations to hire a mentor coach
2. Does your coaching look like a business? Where do you need to become more business-like?
3. Do you have a current career or hobby you can merge with coaching? What would the first step be?
4. Post your first step, thoughts and comments at the blog!

Enjoy!

David

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Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Create #45: Attachment vs. Freedom

1. Announcements/Offers

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Alternative Relationship? New 'Poly' TV Show

My good friend Reid Mihalko has produced a breakthrough pilot TV show that sheds light on the interesting and controversial practice of polyamory. It's a non-traditional relationship model - also known as 'open relationships' or having more than one romantic partner.

If you have any interest or curiosity in this area (and the mere mention hasn't sent you running for the hills!), then please:

  • Watch the trailer here or here.
  • Go to the show's MySpace page and either become a friend or sign the guest book so that the producers can show the studio execs that x-number of people are actually interested in watching a show like this.
  • Tell your friends about Polly & Marie!
  • If you have contacts who might be able to help get Polly & Marie on the air, let my buddy Reid know at reid@cuddleparty.com
Got a comment? Add it to the blog.


2. FEATURE: Attachment vs. Freedom

"Where's my laptop?"

My heart skipped a beat. We'd just driven 50 blocks through Manhattan and I couldn't see my laptop in the car.

And bear in mind my whole business is run through my laptop!

"Man - I think you left in on the sidewalk outside that car."

And Harold was right; I remember now putting down my laptop on the cement to get a pen, and I hadn't taken it with us in the car.

That was 20 minutes ago.....a laptop sitting on the sidewalk, in Manhattan, New York.

Something kicked in and my mind said, through the panic: "You're OK. You backed up a couple of weeks ago. And you can buy another one." And it was fun to look cool in front of my friends who were amazed at how I was taking it.

I tried to call the restaurant. And for a long.....eternal.....glacial 20 minutes, I got a busy signal!

On the 20th try I got through, and they said "We have it. Someone saw it and called from across the street and we picked it up."

Jump forward to Germany

After 2 hours of squash at a local gym, I walked to a bus stop and went for my cell phone to call my friend.

No phone.

No credit cards.

No drivers license.

No money.

I had left my street pants - over 2 hours ago - in the change room of the gym.

In under 5 seconds my brain ran through the consequences: "You can call from the club, and get your friend to come pick you up. Your passport is in your hotel, plus a spare credit card. You're good. Whew!"

So calmly, interested, I walked back to the gym, to find my pants on the counter behind reception - with everything intact.

But what about losing something where it DOES matter?

Just apply the same principle.

I lost the domain LifeCoaching.com.au through inaction and was very upset for a while. Now I trust that I don't need it - that whatever I'm going to do on this planet doesn't require that domain.

If you want me to pull out the big guns, I lost my sister when I was very young. I don't wish that on anyone. And...I can choose to hold on and be upset about it, or create another interpretation, such as: abundance can flow in to replace whatever we lose. It seems there's a degree of trust involved.

What's the message?

Well firstly - don't lend me anything valuable. ;-)

But secondly....it's really fun to practice letting go quicker and quicker.

The thing I'm most enjoying about the 'near losses', is the opportunity to 'let go.' The opportunity to see my life without the thing, and be grateful for that life, without that thing. "OK - if that's gone, here's how my life will look, and that's pretty good. Hate to see it go, but that's OK - I really don't need it."

Practice letting go, so that in a difficult situation, when you feel like you have lost out...feel the feelings, the sadness or panic, and realize that you're OK.

Perhaps, in a way, on a very deep level, you'll always be OK.


Action

Notice each day for seven days - just notice - where you're getting upset at how it is.

Post on the blog what's happening in your life right now that you're upset about. That you're resisting. Where you feel it shouldn't be that way. Do you really need it? Ready to let it go right now and love your life the way it is?

Please post your comments on the blog.

Enjoy,




3. The Personal Touch

I'm writing this on a plane which has been delayed, sitting on the runway. Rain and lightning crashing around, and a heavy barricade being blown across the airport.

The guy in front of me said "Oh great! Now we're going to be here forever."

I ran through the thought process, and realized I can listen to my iPod, write this newsletter, and I have a great book to read. I could spend about 3 hours here without blinking. And I truly feel grateful that the pilot chose not to take off yet in this storm. And - if I did have an important meeting that I was about to miss - it was beyond my control....so I could let it go, and any image or money I might have received from the meeting.

To lighten the mood I said "Well, at least we have each other," and he said, "You won't feel that way for long."

D